Well as they say !!!!!!......dance with the devil!!! .........you better get some shiny shoes! ........or dine with the devil....... you better get a long fork! .....i am not sure what that means........but i have heard it many times ......however ...... before i get off track on the subject in hand ...... which i sometimes do ......... due to me having the attention span of a of a dung fly .....well as andy warhol say " everyone get their 15 mins of fame"...... these two certainly got their's ...... but not as they wanted .....at it came at a cost .....two families got fucked ........proper fucked an all ......"lust can turn people lives into dust" .......as they say .....who are they ?.......well if you going to have an affair ...you have to be discreet .......do not leave a crumb of evidence ......... make it like a second job .....clean up everything .....make sure you got a good bros....... to cover your arse !!!!!!!.....and codes ...... phone codes...... text codes! .....but most people are stupid........ and get caught .......i did it many times .......listen you go to a cold play concert....... and you are cheating ......you are not that smart are you ? .......and you know there is a thing there .......i wonder what the total loss is in family........ and money .......what a way to get famous .....not !!!!!!!........well coldplay made them famous allright !!!!!......there is an old saying in the army .......don't shit where you eat ......or don't crap in your back pack.......don't fuck a person you work with........ it never ever ends well .....women get too emotional .... i personally blame them ....... because i am a toxic male pig ......sorry!....cannot apologize........ i could but i won't and as i say all men are pigs just every women likes a little bacon between her buns!!!!!>....
Coldplay kisscam HR boss Kristin Cabot breaks silence on viral scandal – from ‘happy crush’ with CEO to kids in tears
Cabot said she did not hear the announcement that the jumbotron was about to focus on the crowd
A HR boss caught on Coldplay’s kisscam in a viral 16-second clip has spoken publicly for the first time.
Kristin Cabot, 53, a former senior exec at tech firm Astronomer, says the moment she was shown embracing her boss at a Coldplay concert in Boston “ruined” her life.
She recalled the moment Coldplay frontman Chris Martin focused the stadium camera on her and Andy Byron, then joked: “Either they’re having an affair or they’re just very shy.”
Cabot told The Times: “Everything just flashed before my eyes.”
The clip, filmed by another concertgoer and posted to TikTok, was viewed millions of times and sparked an online hunt to identify the pair.
Both were widely assumed to be cheating, but Cabot said that assumption was wrong.
She explained the embrace was the first time she and Byron had been physically affectionate and that both were amicably separated from their partners.
“I could have been struck by lightning, I could have won the lottery, or this could have happened,” Cabot said.
“But I’m not some celebrity, I’m just a mom from New Hampshire.”
At the time, Cabot was Astronomer’s head of HR and Byron was the company’s CEO.
She had joined the start-up in November after being headhunted for her experience at major advertising firms.
Cabot described Byron as a supportive boss who ensured women “had a seat at the table”, adding: “It was the first company in the male-dominated professions I’d worked in where I felt my gender was not an issue.”
About a month before the concert, Cabot said, they told each other they had split from their partners.
Over time, she said that support turned into what she called “a big happy crush”.
On the night of the concert, Cabot believed she was anonymous among tens of thousands of fans.
“We were sitting in the back of the stadium … in the pitch black just feeling totally anonymous,” she said.
The former HR boss revealed she did not hear the announcement that the jumbotron was about to focus on the crowd.
“So suddenly I’m just seeing us on screen.”
Her first thoughts were of her estranged husband, Andrew, who she later learned was also at the concert.
She said: “My immediate reaction was, ‘Holy s***, Andrew’s here’.”
“Then a beat later my mind turns to, ‘Oh God, Andy’s my effing boss’.”
Cabot and Byron left the stadium quickly and agreed to alert Astronomer’s board.
By the early hours of the morning, the video was already spreading online.
At 4am, Cabot said her husband sent her a screenshot of the clip with the message: “I think you should know this is out there.”
The executive said the backlash fell disproportionately on her, adding: “I became a meme, I was the most maligned HR manager in HR history.”
She also rejected accusations that she was a “gold-digger” or had “slept my way to the top”.
Even Astronomer joked about the situation a few weeks after the viral moment.
They hired actress Gwyneth Paltrow – Chris Martin’s ex-husband – for a PR stunt where she jokingly answered questions on the shocking kiss.
The company commercial was praised for its comedy and clever timing but Cabot took it as the ultimate insult.
She revealed she threw away everything she owned from Paltrow’s brand Goop for being “a hypocrite”.
Cabot said: “I was such a fan of her company, which seemed to be about uplifting women.
“And then she did this… What a hypocrite.”
Cabot went on to speak about how the fallout quickly reached her family.
“My daughter burst into tears,” Cabot said, recalling telling her children.
Her son, she said, tried to reassure her that it would “probably go away”, but “it did not.”
Astronomer launched an internal investigation, with Byron resigning within days.
The company later said it found no evidence of an affair but said leadership standards had not been met.
Cabot stepped down soon after, saying: “There was a lot of noise around me not taking accountability, but what actually happened is the board said, ‘Please stay’, and I said, ‘How?’”
She says that without the online pile-on, she could have apologised and kept her job.
Instead, she retreated to an Airbnb, saying she was in “too dark a place” to parent her children, and has since filed for divorce from her husband.
Cabot said she has struggled to find work and has been told she is “unemployable”.
She has hired a communications adviser and says she is speaking out to highlight the harm caused by online shaming.
